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Saturday, May 24, 2008

Attraction Factor No. 1: Self-Confidence

Attraction Factor No.1: Self-Confidence


Among the top criteria women mentioned when asked about their favorite qualities in a man, they said:


  1. Good looking
  2. Sense of humor
  3. Ultra confidence
  4. Being successful
  5. Providing protection and safety
However, all of them agreed that self-confidence was the most important one.
Actually not surprising.
People in general tend to be attracted to independence and are repulsed by anyone seeming to cling.

If you would like to improve your level of self-confidence and thus your attraction for women, you might want to check out Hypno-Date.

Here's a comment by Josh, a successful "applicant" of the confidence-course:

"Hypno-Date,

I live in Canyon Country, California. All the women here are either trailer trash, Mis-placed Cowgirls, or stuckup yuppies. I always have had to drive all the way down to Los Angeles to get any decent Poon-tang.

Then I read your book. At first I thought I was just looking for the changes and maybe making them happen in my own mind, but even my friends were totally freaked out by the sudden changes going on!

Man, what a difference. All of a sudden, Hot Chicks of all kinds started just appear as if out of the walls, and a lot of them seemed to be interested in ME!

[Snipped for length reasons]

...Then when I started testing the step-by-step procedures out on some local beauties round here, whoa!!! it was like shooting fish in a whiskey barrel with a shotgun.

Let’s just say I get my fishing “LIMIT” each and every week now, without ever having to leave the city limits.

Hell, your getting me laid and saving me time, money and gas all at the same time.

This book is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me!

Thanks “Hypno-Date!”

Josh S.

Canyon Country, CA.

For further info on Hypnodate, click here.


Dating Tips That Work

Dating Tips That Work


A new super-effective dating guide for men by the "Dating Doc" has just been released.
Dating Doc claims that you do not necessarily have to be handsome, wealthy or otherwise extremely successful in order to have a good chance with the other sex.

Dating Doc is absolutely convinced that after reading the guide from cover to cover you will have turned into a skilled heartbreaker that he offers an 8-week full money-back-guarantee.

You might want to check it out yourself.


Below some readers' comments:


"I never thought I'd be the guy who could pick up successfully. But after reading your book, I was determined to make it work! With just a week of practice and psyching myself up... I got myself with a date with a fabulous woman!"
Ron Edwards, IA

"All I have to say to you guys is, we're planning the wedding for September. Thanks!"
Sam Cartwell, FL

"Seven days. Seven women. I am completely amazed. And it's all thanks to your book! I especially liked chapter three - it made a whole lot of sense!"
Dwayne Stweart, GA

"After reading your book and working with your system, I was surprised and thrilled to find that for the first time, women were watching me walk across the bar! Amazing results!"
Roland Evans, AK

"For the first time in my life, women are asking me out. I haven't been rejected since I picked up your book... it's incredible!"
Chester Rogerson, KY

For further info on the dating guide, click here.

About "The Law of Attraction" Home Study Course

The Law of Attraction Home Study Course


You probably have heard of the fantastic book "The Law of Attraction" by Esther & Jerry Hicks. (one of my favorites beside "The Secret")
In it, they explain how it is possible to achieve happiness, love, financial freedom and a fulfilled life in general just by the power of habitual positive thinking.

Although the book is very well written, it is sometimes not easy to put all the practical advice into action.

I just discovered a course on "The Law of Attraction" which obviously does an amazing job at making everyone succeed in this.

According to relationship counselor and author Dr Mitzi Lynton, apart from many other things it helps you to

- align your thoughts, words, and actions for success
- focus on what you want to manifest in your life
- change your thinking to create unprecedented abundance
- heal negative emotions and replace them with positive ones
- let go of worry and embrace a deeper level of peace
- replace beliefs that are holding you back with empowering ones
and lots more.

In addition to that, there is a free bonus available, i.e. the three "thoughtworks" which have also served Rhonda Byrne, producer of "The Secret", as resources.

Check it out here.

Is it true love?

Is it true love?

Sometimes it is really hard to tell whether or not the person we are so passionate about is "the one" for us.
However, even while being on cloud nine, there are several distinct signs telling you if this is the real thing:

You are not truly in love if you:


- are idealizing your partner thinking of him as perfect
- are selfish always making your own needs the top priority
- are dependent on your partner and have to be with him permanently
- fell in love overnight
- are deadly jealous and possessive most of the time
- have difficulty to reconcile after an argument

You are in love if you


- have a realistic view of your partner, allowing him to be imperfect
- built your relationship gradually step by step
- are concerned with his needs first
- give him freedom and personal space
- are not dependent on him although you enjoy being with him
- are moderately jealous
- making up after a fight or discussion is a pleasant experience for both of you


For further romantic advice, go here.





Thursday, May 22, 2008

Romantic Tip: Writing Messages On Mirrows

Romantic Tip of the week


The best things do not necessarily have to be the most expensive ones.
Check out the romance tip of the week below:


Writing Messages on Mirrows


"For decades men and women have been writing messages on bathroom
mirrors. With the invention of dry erase markers bathroom mirror
communication can be taken to the next level.

A packet of dry erase markers can be purchased at any office supply
store and only cost a couple of dollars. They make great tools with
which to pen your sonnets and love notes on mirrors, car windows
and even some appliances.

With a variety of colors you can draw all sorts of pictures on the
glass or metal canvas. Decorate the mirror with hearts, smiley faces
or an impressionistic landscape. You could even play tic-tac-toe
or hangman.

Best of all, they clean up quickly with a swipe of tissue."

And here are some more great romantic tips...

Michael Webb's relationship collection at:

Romantic Tips

Friday, May 16, 2008

How to tell if she feels attracted to you

Indicators of Attraction


How can you tell whether or not a woman is attracted to you?
Easy. There are several distinctive signs revealing her "level of interest" in you.

Recognizing those signs can be immensely helpful in the dating & relationship game.

Christian Thorne, well-known author and relationship expert, has developed a new guide to understanding and creating attraction with women.

Below you will find an outline of the most obvious signs that she "may have caught fire":


She asks you a question -
If you start a conversation with a woman and she engages you back by asking you questions then this is an indicator of interest.

Her body language opens up to you -
During conversation if she crosses her legs toward you or leans in towards you this is another indicator of interest.

She touches her hair or face -
If she starts to touch her hair or face while you are talking to her this is a sure sign that she is starting to become attracted to you.

She looks at your mouth -
This can be a hard one to pick up on, but when you see a woman looking at your mouth she is not only attracted, she is probably ready to kiss you!

Her pupils dilate -
This is a physical reaction she can't control that will happen when you start to pump up her attraction toward you.





She laughs at your jokes -
If she laughs at your jokes this means she sees you as someone of value, therefore she is starting to become attracted to you.

She holds eye contact -
You can tell when someone is not interested or does not see you as a person of value because their eyes will wonder when you talk to them. If a woman holds good eye contact without roaming her eyes around it's a big indicator of interest.

She's comfortable with touch -
If she is comfortable with you lightly touching her or if you hold her hand and she squeezes back this is an indicator of interest.

She leaves her friends to be with you -
This is a big indicator that she likes you and you probably have massive attraction.

She hits you in a playful way -
This is a very common flirty way for a woman to be playful with a man that she is attracted to.

She tilts her head when speaking -
When a woman tilts her head in a dreamy way when listening or speaking this is an indicator of interest.


For further info on the attraction guide, click here.




Thursday, May 15, 2008

How To Get Rid Of Self-Limiting Beliefs & Start Conquering...

Increase Your Self-Confidence, get rid of self-limiting beliefs and the world is your oyster


In order to be successful in love and dating, self-confidence is an essential ingredient.
How else would you want to convince a potential partner of your qualities, create respect and attraction?
Exactly.
Unfortunately, most people lack healthy self-esteem due to past negative experiences, dominant and authoritative parents etc etc.

However, it is possible to overcome these built-in disadvantages by applying certain "corrective" strategies.
In order to do so effectively, it is required to become aware of our handicapping and self-limiting beliefs:

"Whenever we have unfortunately or even accidentally programmed inhibitive ideas or beliefs about ourselves into our conscious and subconscious mind, whether these thoughts are of our own origination, or injected into our psyche by someone else, they are known as “Self-Limiting Thoughts,”. They are absolute trouble and need to be dealt with immediately!

“Self-Limiting Beliefs” are so effectively detrimental because they come from within, so there is far less opportunity to fend off their attacks and defend ourselves from the self-annihilation they bring. “Self-Limiting Beliefs” are the most powerful enemy we can ever have to face, as the famous old saying reminds us so very clearly, “We have seen the enemy, and they are “us!”


Just like in real warfare, one of the most efficient strategies to win a battle is to infiltrate the oppositions camp and spy out their strategies and battle plans. As well as this, you provide them with as much false information as possible, to lead them astray, causing them to make incorrect moves, based on improper assumptions. In turn, leaving them vulnerable and ready to be more easily defeated.


This is exactly what happens to you when you allow your unconscious and conscious mind to offer up negative and simply bad information to yourself about yourself. As you plan your campaign to get ladies and get laid based on a collection of un-true and falsified facts about yourself – the facts that are burned into your unconscious mind – you will start setting in motion a plan to FAIL. Your brain will work its hardest to prove your plan correct – and you will probably fall well short of your intended targets.


Some Self-Limiting Beliefs are as follows:


  • Girls only want to be with guys who have lots of money!
  • Women only want sex with strings attached – committed relationships!
  • If you aren’t “Great Looking,” you may as well just give up now!
  • Babes can sense inexperience and won’t even give you the time of day if they think you don’t have the experience they deem “necessary”.
  • Hot chicks are only attracted to “Bad-Boy,” Alpha-Male, “A”-holes!
  • She’s already got a boyfriend, better give up now!
  • Women should be willing to accept me completely, just the way I already am!
  • She’s a “Total 10,” I can’t compete for her. I don’t measure up!
  • The “Super-Models” are off-limits, simply NO CHANCE there!
  • That babe is way too popular, look at all the guys who are already all over her!

They’re just a few of the seriously debilitating Self-Limiting Beliefs that can hold us back from really going for all the gusto we not only deserve, but could easily have if we just trusted in ourselves enough to go for it! If you don’t believe you can get the chick, you won’t get the chick! If you “DO” believe you can get the chick, you “WILL” get the chick! It’s really that simple. It’s all about what you believe!"


Excerpt taken from HypnoDate.com