Romantic Tip: Edible Valentine Cards

Romantic Tip : Edible Valentine Cards

Hello everyone,

the romantic tip of the week comes from Sarah Williams this time - I hope you will enjoy it!


One year for Valentine's Day I made my sweetie a sugar cookie
card. I made two big rectangle cookies with regular sugar cookie
dough. When they came out of the oven, I poked two holes on the
same side of each rectangle, so that the cookies could be strung
together with string twizzlers to resemble a card or book.

Before I strung the two together, I wrote a poem on heavy paper
and fill out an order form for a magazine he wanted. I folded the
order form so that it would fit neatly behind the poem and secured
them to one of the cookies with icing, then finished decorating both
cookies with the remaining icing I put them both in the freezer so
that the icing would set to the cookies.

When they were ready I took them out and strung them together with
the twizzlers then carefully wrapped them in tissue paper and put it
back in the freezer for my
husband to find the on valentine's day morning.

As I suspected the next morning my husband, who is fairly curious
person, found the tissue wrapped gift and opened it to reveal his
card. He like it so much that he didn't want to eat it, which got
me worried because part of his present was underneath the poem.

I finally convinced him to eat it after we took pictures of it. As he
sadly started to take the poem off the cookie he noticed the order
form hidden behind, and with a big smile on his face, he realized
why I insisted on him taking it apart. After all the excitement we
both relaxed by eating his edible Valentine's Day card.

And here are some more great romantic tips...

Romantic Advice

What Men Want

What Men Want


"What a man really wants is a woman who loves him in spite of himself, but won't put up with his bull. "

The above sentence is one of the basic messages and a quotation of relationship expert Tom McKnight's famous "Lovetactics" philosophy:

According to Tom's experience, what every man is looking for in a woman is in one word: Validation.

Which means, in essence, men want women who are caring and kind and who truly enjoy being with their man.
At the same time, they should not entirely depend on him or make him responsible for their happiness. On the contrary, in order to be well respected and appreciated by her man, she ought to be capable of both:
To happily enjoy being together with him while at the same time being able to easily survive without him.

It is exactly this mixture of caring, nourishing elements on the one hand with a strong and independent attitude on the other which makes him feel safe thinking that he chose the perfect woman.

So ladies, if you are serious about your relationship and want to fulfill your man's heart, try to find that balance!

Good luck! ;)

For further relationship tips, go here!

How To Re-Ignite The Fire In Your Relationship

How to Re-Ignite Fire and Passion in Your Relationship


As we all know, it takes time, determination and continuous effort to keep romantic and passionate feelings alive in a relationship.

However, sometimes the burdens of everyday life (children, money issues, work, stress..) make it very difficult to not neglect our partner and family.

In order to improve your relationship and give passion a chance to light up again, here are a few unexpensive, yet sweet things you can do:

First of all, become aware that you are only human and start doing the little things again you used to do when the relationship was still "fresh":

Show your love in a unique way like with sending special, personal little gifts,
bring back old and treasured memories, give your sweetie a sensual massage, start "dating" again, meet outside for special occasions etc.

Remember, it is always the little things that count.... ;)

You will be surprised at how well this "strategy" works.


For further dating and relationship tips, go here!

Further Life Changing Secrets of The Secret

Further Life Changing Secrets of The Secret...


Hello everyone!

Since the most important relationship in life is the one we have with ourselves, it is vital to first get to know and truly find ourselves before reaching out to someone else.

Below you will find an inspiring and beneficial article by Guy Finley, which was sent to me by Ron Peer, author of "Secrets of the Secret". It is full of insights on life and the challenges of life everyone has to deal with.

I hope you will like it as much as I did.

Happy reading! ;)


How to change your life

"We meet life, with all of its complex relationships, through what we know. Each daily event, with its
dozens of unsuspected twists and turns, challenges us to come up with our best answers. Once our most
suitable answer is at hand, we launch it and ourselves into action and watch to see what happens. With
each situation this challenge and response process is repeated over and over again, until the condition
resolves itself for us, either favorably or not.

The point being made here is that at any given moment we always do what we know. This may seem very
obvious, but with closer examination, especially in light of the fact we wish to elevate ourselves and
what we are getting from this life, we will discover something very astounding.

Read the next three sentences very carefully. I have separated this trio of important ideas for ease of
reading, but they are very much connected to each other. Each higher idea leads to the next one, and
when they are absorbed all together, they will tell you a great secret.

Before you can get anything different from this life, you must first do something different.

Before you can do anything different with your life, you must first know something different.

Before you can know anything different, you must first suspect and then confirm that it is your present
level of understanding that has brought you what you now wish you could change.

Now let's reverse the order of these right ideas so that we can see how they work from the other way
around.

Until you know something different you cannot do anything different.

Until you do something different you will not get anything different.

And until you really get something different from your life you cannot know what you have missed and how
much more there is to understand.

Here's the point. Trying to change what you get from life without first changing what you know about
life is like putting on dry clothes over wet ones and then wondering why you keep shivering. You must
stop trying to change what you are getting for yourself and go to work on changing what you are giving
to yourself.

It is vital for you to realize that life has not held back its riches from you. The truth be known,
which it will be, you have been held back from real life by a false nature which thinks life is meant to
be suffered through and that all there is to insulate it from a harsh world is what it can win and
possess for itself.

While there is no denying our world is becoming more and more cruel, there is also no denying that we
are the world. Neither our individual world nor the global one can change until the connection between
what we experience and who we are is no longer denied.

This is why we must have a new knowledge. Spiritual knowledge isn't something mysterious or out of this
world. In fact, spiritual understanding is the most important and practical knowledge a person can
possess.

It is ultimately what we know about ourselves, about who we really are, that determines the
quality of our life.

The truth is we cannot separate our answers from our actions and our actions from their results. They
may appear to be individual in their operation because they often occur at different times, but they are
really one thing. Intellectually we already know this important concept, but its deep significance
hasn't yet become clear.

Let's look at the old adage, "As ye sow, so shall ye reap." Here we can see a new significance in this
New Testament teaching. What you sow is seed or, in this metaphor, your knowledge. What you reap is the
crop, or your results. This spiritual knowledge shows us the great importance of reconsidering what we
think we know. Life is trying to reach us and teach us, through our experience of it, that we need new
and true answers. These higher answers serve as a special kind of personal shelter that effortlessly
keeps out what is harmful and keeps in what is healthy and life-giving. That is its nature.

Here are five examples of how these higher answers can work for you. You'll see how each one also
suggests a new action and promises a new result. Remember that each complete section, one through five,
represents a whole action. In reality, you cannot separate your answers from your actions and your
actions from their results. Just as warmth must follow sunlight, so must a higher, happier life follow
when inner-light is allowed to flourish.

1. Your New Answer: Real strength is the refusal to act from weakness.

Your New Action: See where you have been calling inner-weakness an inner strength; such as calling
anxiety concern, or anger righteousness. Dare to live without these false strengths.

Your New Result: The end of your confusion and pain over why your strength so often fails you. At the
same time you will realize the birth of a new and true strength that never turns into its weak opposite.

2. Your New Answer: Have the courage to proceed even while knowing that you are afraid.

Your New Action: Dare to take one shaky step after another.

Your New Result: Freedom from a life of fear because fear cannot exist whenever insight is valued above
feeling frightened.

3. Your New Answer: Forgiveness is the personal understanding that except for circumstance there is no
real difference between you and your offender.

Your New Action: In spite of all the inner-screams to the contrary, dare to treat your trespasser as you
would want to be treated.

Your New Result: When you stop punishing others for their weakness, you will stop punishing yourself for
yours.

4. Your New Answer: Compassion is the conscious refusal to add to another person's suffering, even
though it may seem to increase yours.

Your New Action: Dare to shoulder one hundred times the mental and emotional weight you think you can
carry.

Your New Result: Contained right within the suffering is the glimpse that there is no sufferer.

5. Your New Answer: Real hope is the fact that there is always a Higher Solution.

Your New Action: See that any time you feel pained or defeated, it is only because you insist on
clinging to what doesn't work. Dare to let go and you won't lose a thing except for a punishing idea.

Your New Result: A new life that fears no inner or outer challenge since defeat can only exist in the
absence of a willingness to learn.

Now that you have reviewed these five new and true answers, you may wish to write down some of your own.
This is highly profitable for accelerating your inner growth. Don't be discouraged if at first you can't
come up with any new ideas. There is great gain in your efforts because even the smallest attempt to
find new answers is a new answer! The more you work with truthful principles, the more they will work
for you.

Always remember when you work with powerful higher ideas such as these that there are many temporarily
unknown parts of yourself that may try to mislead you. They know that your growing true spiritual
insight will lead you away from their harmful influence and deliver you to true safety. No matter what
the harmful voices within may say, whosoever puts the Truth first will never lose anything except for
that which was never real in the first place."

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Seduction In Relationships - This Is How It Works

Seduction In Relationships - This is how it works!


Hi again! ;)

I came across a truly interesting info product by a guy called CR James who readily reveals his "successful" seduction techniques, i.e. his personal solution to keeping romance and passion alive - especially in committed long term relationships.

Although I am a female (and thus a little prejudiced when it comes to teaching men how to successfully seduce women..) , I have to acknowledge how well thought out his seduction techniques seem to be.

Consciously or not, he applies psychological principles in a way you cannot help being impressed.
(even though I felt a little uncomfortable when he described how to "technically" increase a woman's sensual desires by applying the "right" seduction strategy. (...)

However, the overwhelming and thankful response he got from fellow sufferers who completely turned their sensual seduction attitude around after going through his material, is quite touching.

Read below:

"Hi CR,

Thanks for getting back with me.

I understand that you must get hundreds of emails from men and women just like me who are turning their relationships around.

There are a few things I've been wanting to write about. I am a high school teacher so I know that if you are able to change lives (even 1 life) for the positive that the gratification you receive from knowing what you've done is immeasurable . So, I feel obligated to write you.

I found my way to your website after learning something that devastated me beyond anything imaginable!

After 2 days of pulling my hair out and trying to figure out why she was an emotional wreck, she admitted to me that she realized our sexual problems we had been facing were because she loved me but wasn't physically attracted to me. I've never been hit with anything so hard in my life!

That brought me to you.

Failure in our marriage was no option.

Your website was the first that appeared and was like an oasis. I have read through your book several times and I can tell you that it became my "bible" if you will on correcting my marriage.

I have realized that everything you talked about is/was brilliant.

Every moment that I am with her now I am going through things in my head that you have written about.

Another thing that is comforting to me is that you seem to have gone through everything that I went through (except that you realize that lack of attraction instead of her having to admit it to you). Therefore I knew that it would work.

I keep this in mind also, as I continue to build on the foundation that I have built since this realization. I have changed internally and have begun to think on a greater level.

Every once in a while there are occasions that arise where I find myself thinking back to specific parts of your book and going "yeah, he talked about that and I handle it like this . . . ."

Without a doubt, I can tell that I have built back up that attraction that we had when we were first together.

Things are better sexually than ever before and neither of us continue to be frustrated with this matter.

I feel like a big percent of husbands go through this problem. Do you think this is a safe assumption?

Looking back, I know that we were on the road to catastrophe if this wouldn't have happened. It now seems that it is that best thing that could happen to us.

I will also tell you that I am a religious man who believes that this all happened for a reason.

Along that note, I will also tell you that I don't believe anything that you have talked about is immoral. We ARE created different and your findings are a breakthrough to me as to how women act and why in many cases.

I want to THANK YOU with the utmost sincerity and tell you that I don't want to think about where I (and my marriage) would be without your knowledge and taking the time to write it down.

I continue to look forward and I wait with great anticipation for each new email that you send.

Sincerely,
JW "

Interested? For more info on the "Super Seduction Guide" go here.

;) Tinytoon



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Male Flirting Strategy: Mixed Messages

Male Flirting Strategy: Mixed Messages


Have you ever wondered why some guys started to sound rude or provocative when trying to initiate contact with you?
Well, maybe it wasn't meant to be rude, you know.
It is very well possible that he was just trying to apply the "mixed messages" tactics.

According to David DeAngelo, the greatest "womanizing" expert on earth, this is the single most effective strategy one can apply when trying to fascinate a desired woman.

The secret is to simply apply a proven principle called "cocky and funny", which means making fun of a woman in a playful way, teasing her, provoking her etc. while being charming at the same time.
Of course a very delicate balance is required to not repel the lady completely...

However, if applied correctly, the sugar-and-spice approach works like magic to "mesmerize" the one you want.

Happy flirting!

;) Tinytoon

PS: For further tips on flirting & dating, go here!

What To Say When You First Approach...

What to say when you first approach


Trying to talk to someone the first time can be really awkward sometimes.
You may wonder what is the best way to approach "effectively" without scaring them off by saying all the wrong things.

So here's some useful piece of advice by Christian Thorne I perfectly agree with:

When you approach a group of women do you find yourself intuitively
wanting to start the conversation off with a question?

Maybe something like, "What's your name?" or "How are you doing?"

Don't worry most men think this way but there's one problem...

This is an instant turnoff for her!

Let me explain...

Starting the conversation with a bunch of questions makes her have
to do all the work immediately after meeting you. She has to spend
time and energy coming up with an answer before you have
demonstrated that you can add anything to her life.

Asking questions right away is likely to get you a bad reaction
from both men and women you are meeting for the first time.

Here's what to do instead...

When you start off the conversation say things that indicate you
are a FUN person and that YOU are the PARTY!

Make fun statements instead of asking question. Once you've shown
her that you are fun she will be more likely to answer a question
later as you get to know each other.

For more effective love & dating tips, go here!

;) Tinytoon